"Likes, posts, tweets, and friends" are the catchphrases in social media. Social media plays a larger role in our lives than ever before.
However, "social media can foster body image issues, create addiction-like patterns of use, promote products that are harmful or illegal for young audiences, and fuel destructive bullying" (KOSA, 2022).
It's not uncommon for students to create these accounts using false information as a way to
bypass restrictions. For example, a 10-year-old may create an account for a social media site
that requires/recommends an age of 13 or higher.
Snapchat, Facebook, Youtube, Twitter, Instagram and most sites require an age of 13, but they rarely verify the information.
SOCIAL MEDIA & KIDS
On a positive note, these tools can help kids connect and form relationships. (APA chief
scientist outlines potential harms, benefits of social media for kids, Feb., 2023)
The internet, when used properly is a very valuable learning tool. Students can read books,
research a topic, or get help with homework to name a few.
ENCOURAGE RESPONSIBLE USE
Model responsible social media usage before giving your child the green light. What if people only posted encouragements, or ways to offer support? Check out these recommendations to help your child use social media responsibly.
RECOMMENDATIONS
- Inform your child that Robeson County Schools uses a program called Gaggle to help monitor
student computers/accounts. This system flags and reports students that use language that may indicate harm to self or others.
- Set time limits, especially near bedtime.
- Discuss with your child what should/should NOT be discussed on social media.
- Discuss what pictures/videos should/ should not be posted (Ex. minors, nudity, weapons).
- Encourage your child to "block" users that offend.
- Ensure your child is the recommended age and has the maturity level to handle social media
-Students should not communicate on social media with unknown or unsolicited individuals.
- Monitor your child's activity & "friends" often.
- Discuss the importance of protecting their password.
- Educate your child and let them know that crimes can be committed using social media.
- Use social media tools to report bullies, threats, and harassment.
- Notify law enforcement. Report crimes to the FBI through the following link: https://www.ic3.gov/
*This list is only a foundation for responsible social media usage.
Courtesy of St. Pauls Elementary School's Counseling Dept.